Vendettas or Holding Grudges...

Who is it hurting?  Who is it supposed to hurt?

Think about it...

Now think some more...

Do you have an answer?

It's not fun to admit, but you are the only one getting hurt and it's you hurting yourself!

Not only that, but you are most likely hurting others that you care most about by taking offense to anything that even looks like you are not being supported.  What?  What are you saying?

That's right--you are  hurting people that weren't involved in your charade/dispute and even more-so everyone involved at all in the episode, whether you like it or not!

Are you saying I'm hurting them?

Yes!

Are you saying I'm hurting him?

Are you saying I'm hurting her?

NO!

Just stop.  Stop it!

JPS