Moroni 1:2 says, “For behold, their wars are exceedingly fierce among themselves; and because of their hatred they put to death every Nephite that will not deny the Christ.”
There was a time in my life when I would have said, “What difference would it make if I said those words… I absolutely know that Jesus is the Christ and my Savior, and so, even if I said those words, I know they wouldn’t be true--so, what's the big idea if I say those things, because God knows what I think regardless of what I say...”
But, words have power and meaning. Not only that, but we will be judged by our words (and other things…). Even though, one may save his or her life by saying something that they wouldn’t otherwise ever say, by saying those words (or even thinking those words) changes who you are—not only will others be affected by the words you speak, but you, yourself will be everlastingly affected by the words that come out of your mouth or that go through your mind.
The librarian (Constance K. Lundberg) at the J. Reuben Clark law school, during my short stint studying there, wrote an article entitled, "Words of Hate, Words of Love" (very close title used by C. Terry Warner's book manuscript title, "Bonds of Anguish, Bonds of Love", which eventually became, "Bonds that Make Us Free" and an article that could be used at an introduction to his book). Constance wrote that:
Elder Charles Didier of the First Quorum of the Seventy [of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints] taught us to
remember that our “words are a form of personal expression. They
differentiate us as well as fingerprints do. They reflect what kind of
person we are, and tell of our background, and depict our way of life.
They describe our thinking as well as our inner feelings.”
Elder Didier went on to say:
Language is of divine origin. Only man speaks (and women do even
better), and he does so because of the purpose for which he was created."
We also read, in the Book of James of James, talking about the tongue, in the Bible's New Testament, chapter three, verses nine and ten, “Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men,
which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth
proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so
to be”.
The words of a marriage ceremony binds the man and woman together, and if performed in a one of the temples of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, by one holding and exercising the power and authority of the priesthood of God that binds the two, together, forever, their marriage will continue throughout all eternity (Doctrine & Covenants section 132, specifically verse 19, "And again, verily I say unto you, if a man marry a wife by my word, which is my law, and by the new and everlasting covenant, and it is sealed unto them by the Holy Spirit of promise, by him who is anointed, unto whom I have appointed this power and the keys
of this priesthood; and it shall be said unto them—Ye shall come forth
in the first resurrection; and if it be after the first resurrection, in
the next resurrection; and shall inherit thrones, kingdoms, principalities, and powers, dominions, all heights and depths—then shall it be written in the Lamb’s Book of Life, that he shall commit no murder whereby to shed innocent blood,
and if ye abide in my covenant, and commit no murder whereby to shed
innocent blood, it shall be done unto them in all things whatsoever my
servant hath put upon them, in time, and through all eternity; and shall
be of full force when they are out of the world; and they shall pass by
the angels, and the gods, which are set there, to their exaltation and glory in all things, as hath been sealed upon their heads, which glory shall be a fulness and a continuation of the seeds forever and ever).
Words of a judge can condemn or commit a person to a certain sentence of time or free that person from an ill-fated sentence. A contract or law or agreement can be binding after a word if spoken or written.
Now, after years of experience and gaining perspective and understanding, words do matter! Anything that is spoken is proof that you have thought-about (or are thinking about) and are proof that I, or anyone else, thinks about a given subject or question or idea or about a person, place, thing, or idea. A word can be damning or exalting. A "yes" or a "no" (even a tacit no, shown by actions) can be the difference between two different things or ways of being--even existences!
JPS